26 May 01:49
--Keep trash talking my pocket and it'll get mad and eat you.
26 May 01:48
--And then the wars came...the orcs invaded, the white hand of saruman left their mark
26 May 01:47
--That is probably true, even if you don't think you're shopping. Human loneliness is a very powerful motivator. I had resigned myself to being alone when I met Galadriel....and it totally brought me out from under the eye of Sauron and Saruman.
26 May 01:46
--Dating apps are worse today because people project their own idealised self and expect it to speak for them
26 May 01:45
--That's why i differentiate relationships from companionships. Too many people that are basically Shopping, looking for something to their specs or trying to change someone they're with.
26 May 01:43
--I've theorised that with each experience i add to the gauntlet that is getting anything from me at all. Actual words from my friend who wouldn't introduce me to her mate was "you'd either kill eachother or start making out"
26 May 01:41
--I dunno, I really don't care about being in a relationship, and I see a lot of people HUNTING and scraping for one
26 May 01:40
--Lol/ I find that one actually finds out MORE stuff about themselves in a relationship than when alone
26 May 01:37
--Yeah, she has issues, but she also really helped me see mine. I guess that's it. I was more willing to grow than she was. Also I can be a selfish prick...but it was totally taken personally. I would say to anyone that a good relationship is better than being single...but it won't help you at all, if you aren't willing to grow a lot through it
26 May 01:36
--At face value just sayin Galadriel sounds like some very deep set neediness needed putting in check.
26 May 01:34
--I am serially on and off single and can tell you single is way more expensive but so worth it .
26 May 01:34
--I could still see it working, but I doubt she could, so I just left it, after she screamed at the top of her lungs at me how I was a fucking c*nt face and I should get out of her life, because I told her to go see doctor for a cut finger, instead of driving an hour to tend to her needs...sigh
26 May 01:33
--Trust and forgiveness was not in her milieu. I wasn't perfect either, by a long shot...I have become very self-absorbed and introspective because of the freelance, but it was all taken personally....so yeah....bound to failure. Shame because it was the best connection I've ever had with a person ever.
26 May 01:33
--1st ill-step. Instead of looking at her own and working on it she looked for it in others.