07-17-2024, 12:32 AM
I am a harsh men i kick depression in the ball
Here an article i wrote about positive think it just happen it was posted on this website
https://crimsondaggers.com/forum/thread-6483.html
What i have to say in specific to how you write and don't think it as me policing you because it with good intention would be that when you express yourself as if you are a burden to other well you feed that monster.
The thing is to beat that little snaky inner voice that as a big fat mouth. I think of that thing as an egg it very fragile. That voice that say it safer to do nothing to be no body to stay in your lane to shut up to take it. It a voice that want use to be safe but it a voice of self victimization it a voice that say you are already perfect as you are it not a voice that want to harm us ultimately but it not a voice that as the quality that help self actualization. I think of it also as a wounded inner child it doesn't want us to grow up. It does want us to become a beautiful butterfly it kind of jealous of what we will become. It should support us but it often broken because of leak of love that translate into a leak of self love. It want to be love more then it can love itself because it trying to find someone to put the piece back together. Sometime the person that get in the way of putting thing back together is misery love company.
This is not to say you have not been through your share of trauma but it important to acknowledge the trauma and do were best to greave properly and to accept what we feel is not in were control even if we think we deserve thing or that the world conspire against it not always ok to ask something people are not willing to give us. We often forget to do to other what we want them to do for us and when to many people like that walk around it hard to heal the world. It also hard to be positive because we shine so bright that we attract people that want to be piece back together which slowly vampirize were effort to heal were self first. There as to be a balance of giving and receiving.
But it start with receiving at least from the self first which can be hard if we don't know where to look for positive role model. By that i mean taking the positive attribute of someone not by drawing from there energy but cleaning were mess first.
Here an article i wrote about positive think it just happen it was posted on this website
https://crimsondaggers.com/forum/thread-6483.html
What i have to say in specific to how you write and don't think it as me policing you because it with good intention would be that when you express yourself as if you are a burden to other well you feed that monster.
The thing is to beat that little snaky inner voice that as a big fat mouth. I think of that thing as an egg it very fragile. That voice that say it safer to do nothing to be no body to stay in your lane to shut up to take it. It a voice that want use to be safe but it a voice of self victimization it a voice that say you are already perfect as you are it not a voice that want to harm us ultimately but it not a voice that as the quality that help self actualization. I think of it also as a wounded inner child it doesn't want us to grow up. It does want us to become a beautiful butterfly it kind of jealous of what we will become. It should support us but it often broken because of leak of love that translate into a leak of self love. It want to be love more then it can love itself because it trying to find someone to put the piece back together. Sometime the person that get in the way of putting thing back together is misery love company.
This is not to say you have not been through your share of trauma but it important to acknowledge the trauma and do were best to greave properly and to accept what we feel is not in were control even if we think we deserve thing or that the world conspire against it not always ok to ask something people are not willing to give us. We often forget to do to other what we want them to do for us and when to many people like that walk around it hard to heal the world. It also hard to be positive because we shine so bright that we attract people that want to be piece back together which slowly vampirize were effort to heal were self first. There as to be a balance of giving and receiving.
But it start with receiving at least from the self first which can be hard if we don't know where to look for positive role model. By that i mean taking the positive attribute of someone not by drawing from there energy but cleaning were mess first.