01-03-2014, 06:55 AM
I am not at the point of my life for a child but i think that you should not be concern with the sex of a child or is sexual orientation. The best thing you should worry most is what kind of valor you will give them and also to avoid projecting what you have fail and want you're kid you succed at it not there role.Flexibility is the key to mental health and i must keep working on that for the moment. Control appear when flexibility is lost.This can sound stupid but get a dog if you dont have one and it going to be like a first kid experience you must take him out side and keep him in good health make him play and socialize it not like a cat who only need food.I say that because i assume you ask that because you think about having kid i might be wrong.